Friday 31 January 2014

Confessions of a Tri Mom

My husband Kevin and I are officially well into our triathlon training for our Spring 70.3 Half IRONMAN, and our Summer Recharge with Milk Triathlon Series (Multisport Canada). Located in Haines City - about 45mins from the famously known Florida destination, Orlando - this will be our first Half Ironman as we boldly tackle the IRONMAN 70.3 Florida .

Since we never trained with any real vigour for the 'Give It A Tri' triathlons over the past two summers, we thought it would be wise to seek out professional help as we make the jump to a half IRONMAN. I'll be the first to admit that going from an entry level distance in the 'Give It A Tri' race to 70.3miles is uber ambitious. I'm not one to really compete in sports just for fun, I like the challenge, the mental and physical drive it requires, and I find joy in competition. I'm almost over competitive to a fault! With saying that, Kevin and I wanted to do it right and make sure we're ready to not only finish the race in April but to each individually place in the top third of our age category. Go big or go home, right?!

We sought out THE BEST, to support our training and goals; his name is 'Sean Bechtel'. Sean is well known in Canadian triathlon/multisport circles. If you haven't heard of Sean before he is a very talented professional triathlete, who recently placed 10th at the Mont Tremblant IRONMAN, North American Championship in August 2013. He was the 1st Canadian to cross the finish line. Did I forget to mention that this was his first attempt at the FULL IRONMAN distance. Sean, as a coach, teamed up with a great group of highly experienced mentors that coach at the National and Olympic level. Their company is called Personal Best , and it is through this group we chose to build our training plan. Check out their tremendous staff at this link...http://www.personalbest.ca/home/the-pb-team

Here's a pic of their logo if you want to make sure your at the right website:



When starting out with Personal Best/Sean, we began by laying the foundation, having a face to face consultation where Sean learned our history, goals, career and our lifestyle so that he could devise a training plan tailored specifically for us.

With our wee baby Iyla, and work to consider we understood that there would be challenges, choices, and a certain amount of sacrifice. Training for such an event requires a level of commitment that resembles a part-time job. By opting to train 'at-distance' we chose to use the 'Training Peaks' option (check it out here). Training Peaks is a great online service and App, one that coach Sean can load our workouts on (in great detail) and we update it once we complete a workout. There are areas on this App that allow us to share, and post workout comments, times etc. This works best for our schedules.


Since beginning our training at the same time here's how we make it possible:


  • We take turns watching Iyla while we do our pool workouts. This can be a challenge depending on Iylas feeding, pool times, and Kevin's work. Fortunately Kevin has access to a pool at his work and since recently, will often use his lunch hour to train.
  • We use the community pools in Richmond hill, but at the beginning, one of the nearest pools was closed for maintenance.
  • With the closure we completed our workouts (pre-xmas) by one of us going to the 7pm swim while the other attended the 9pm swim. When only one evening session was offered we'd have to be quick in order to both complete our swims within the 2hr window (keeping in mind the short commute as Iyla was in bed and required one of us at home). Sometimes this has meant being a few hundred meters short on our workout and/or adding it on to the next day.
  • Post New Year, Kevin has been doing his swimming at Ryerson (where he works) and I typically do my swimming in the early AM. "Early to bed (not quite), early to rise"!!
  • Running has brought its own set of challenges thanks to the layers of snow and ice, below freezing temperatures (oftentimes reaching between -20/-30), and the frigid windchill.
  • Doing Pick ups and Fartleks at night is tough when there's black ice and the Garmin bezel requires the use of your fingers to light up the screen. Darn bezel! I've actually been using a plain stopwatch that has a button I can press to light it up. Typically my running is done at night once Kevin is back from work.
  • We ride indoors on our trainer and this is the best because Iyla can play nearby and is fascinated by the bike. We only have one trainer so I typically do this during her long nap and Kevin will do his late into the night.
  • On easy runs I take Iyla with me in the chariot but due to temperatures and sidewalk conditions this will have to wait, roll on spring temperatures.
We are truly on a learning curve that delicately balances sacrifice and time management. To help us with this we cancelled our cable, not that we have any time to watch TV. To be with one another I will go down and read on the couch by Kevin as he cycles and vice versa. We have also dedicated an hour block Tue-Thur where we lounge and read together with a hot cuppa tea. We both know right now we are sacrificing our time together to train and achieve our goals. We keep our relationship strong through open and constant communication to make sure we are on the same page. Furthermore we have a goal that we are training for and working towards 'together' which allows for a deeper level of appreciation and support.

My biggest challenge in the first few weeks of training (back in December) was a cold that I had developed. I hadn't been sick since before Iyla was born, and because I'm still breastfeeding, I couldn't take hardly any medication to speed up the process. It seemed to linger quite a long time as I was subjected to some 'good ole fashioned fluids and rest'. I'm not big on slowing down, and this presented many personal problems. I had to actually take a few days to relax, scratching off some workouts, which gradually consumed me with guilt. I like to please, I like to follow a plan, I aim to go above and beyond what's asked of me. I'm Calea, and I do not like missing my workout! 


Thursday 23 January 2014

Last Days in Scotland

This will be the last blog of what happened in 2014 in Scotland by pictures and video.  

Starting with New Years Day, Kevin and I ran/climbed Arthur's Seat, in Edinburgh while still feeling the drink a wee bit. By the end of our run (2hrs later) we felt refreshed and surprised at how quickly time passed during the run. We both truly enjoy running off the beaten path because it adds a different element of fun. You become immersed in natural beauty where time seems to pass just a little quicker. I think this is because of the surrounding scenery or maybe a conscious effort not to roll an ankle (or fall of a cliff edge!). You will notice on the video how windy it is. When we started there was but only a breeze, the higher we climbed the windier (and colder!) it got.




This video is from the top of Arthur's Seat


A quick look at the city of Edinburgh

Holyrood Park

The Crags in Holyrood Park

After returning to Portsoy we went on another hilly run up the Durn Hill. This hill used to represent a race that many of the people of Portsoy did several years ago. They would start and finish at the 'Portsoy Loch', and The Durn Hill would be the turning point - roughly a 4 mile up-and-back run. Kevin's last experience of this race was when he was around 15/16 years old and he placed 2nd. He was passed by an experienced runner on the way up the hill who gave a sly remark, "You shouldn't have started so fast". Kevin spent the rest of the run chasing him ha. 

Durn Hill is where I was headed, starting off behind Kevin's home


Part 1: Going through Kirkies Wood



Part 2: Running a trail between some farmland


Phase 3: Kevin couldn't remember the proper way up so he created his own route, via constant barbwire and mud

Phase 4: Last steep climb to what used to be a cross at the top


Phase 5: Enjoy/Celebrate the view


Video 1

Video 2: Kevin explaining what surrounds us


The next day we told Kevin we were going to Aviemore for the day. In reality we were going there for 3 nights, rented a beautiful cottage/home, and his friends were surprising him at dinner and staying over. 
The boys and Iyla went away in the car with Veronica as Carole and I went in the Van with Bruce and said we had to stop at Bruce's work (fire station) first. We drove in the direction of the fire station only to turn around, go back to the house and quickly/slyly pack up everyones bags for our days away. 

View from the van of Cairngorm Mountains, sorry about the quality of the picture from my phone

Getting closer!

Arrived at Cairngorn Mountains to take the Funicular Railway to the top for our favourite Hot Chocolate 

Iyla wanting to try the whipped cream, getting her hands messy

Soooo good

At the cottage, Kevin was in shock! Here we are enjoying a delicious Indian Meal

Craig serenading Kevin

Tammy and Dunc being entertained by Rhys playing Bop-It

Our beautiful view the next morning


Rhys teaching Iyla how to play Bop-It, due to her first cold...She wasn't too impressed

Now I think Rhys isn't too impressed with Iyla crying

Carole and Craig enjoying the hot tub

Birthday Dinner in Aviemore

Iyla in much better spirits, cold almost gone


I love this girl SO MUCH!

Iyla tucked away in her hoodie on the way home, asleep in Daddies arms


Till next time Scotland! We had a BLAST!!! Thank-you to all our family and friends in Scotland and in Canada who made it possible for us to be there and enjoy such great company. We are truly blessed!










Friday 17 January 2014

Celebrating 2013 Edinburgh Style

Hey Everyone! Now that my family and I are back in Canada I'm playing a bit of catch up. During our last week in Scotland we had very little wifi connection, resulting in a delay of my blogging. 

Bare with me for the next few blogs as I loop you in with what went down in Scotland.

For our 2013 New Years celebrations we travelled to Edinburgh to experience what is said through magazines, books and news programs to be one of the best Hogmanay Events in the world. We also went because my brother in law, Craig and his better half Carole lived there at the time. They have since (in the last few days) packed up and moved to London, England to pursue their dreams. Craig as a singer/songwriter musician and Carole as a dancer!!

To start off our Hogmanay (New Years Eve) day, us girls (Veronica, Carole and I) went shopping. This was my first shopping experience since having Iyla. Despite being very active post baby, clothes don't sit on my body the same way. My body today is much different than what it was before Iyla. I am forever grateful to my body for it cared, provided, and created our bundle of joy. I appreciate where it is at now and love that I had the opportunity on New Years Day to take the time and find new pieces that highlight it's features.

We started at 'Top Shop' where I had a personal shopper. This was what made it my all time TOP SHOPping experience. We got to all have special treats, water and a massive dressing room was awaiting my name full of outfits (including shoes & accessories), all in my size. This eliminated the looking around for my size, carrying clothes around with my coat and purse, waiting for a room, and trying clothes on in a tiny change room. This experience opened my eyes to colours, and styles I wouldn't necessarily have tried on but loved. The stylist/personal shopper knew her stuff and had great suggestions. I walked out with some core must haves (chelsea boots) and fun new elements (tartan tights) that make me feel even more confident in my new skin. The checkout was super fast, line free at the personal shopping till. I highly recommend to all you YUMMYMUMMIES out there to book a personal shopper (ps. they're free, at least at top shop) and make a 'YOU day' out of it. Just put those hubbies on baby duty. I have to say a big thank-you to the boys (Kevin, Bruce and the Craig's), thanks for watching miss Iyla, and to the Souters and Carole for this incredibly thoughtful, generous Christmas gift. 

Veronica, Carole and I starting the day off at Top Shop

Yummy treats for our delight

About to head into the fitting room yay!

The room

Many, many outfits to try on
Next stop, Missoni Hotel for an afternoon tea! The walk to the Hotel was 'hopping' as the city was preparing for it's fireworks, and many MANY people were already out enjoying the music in the park.
Our walk past the garden to an afternoon tea
Our afternoon tea included all the scrumptious items below and a tea of choice. We were given an order to eat them in for the best taste bud experience. My favourite was the top tier, where the dessert stood. After tea we had our first drink of the night.  
Afternoon tea at the Missoni Hotel
Drinks after tea
Back at the flat we got Iyla done up in her special New Years dress before heading to bed. 

Gorgeous Iyla finishing her celebration at 7pm, she did wake briefly for the fireworks

Carole, Craig McGill, Kev and I

Check out my new tartan leggins!

Street party

Some of the thousands of people from around the world

Tasty cider that we waited in a long line for



Celebrating with my best friend, with the castle not too far away
2013 my husband and I experienced the greatest and most wonderful change in our lives by welcoming Miss Iyla Skye. 2014 has it's own milestones within it (turning 30...OUCH). I look forward to what's ahead of me with running, triathlons, family, some more Iyla 'firsts', and watching Kaiser and Iyla's bond grow.

I'll keep you updated! HAPPY NEW YEAR